Language of body

The language of our body in compare with other verbal ways of communication is unique. If to imagine that it transmits 60-80% of given information to the person you speak to, it is easy to understand the necessity in this contact interpretation. If we want to be sure that we've understood the person perfectly, we must combine information of the body and the words heard into one general picture. After all almost everybody faced the problem when people feel unclear worry during communication with the person when he/she was saying one thing but unconsciously you felt that it was not true.

But it is very easy to develop intuition watching the speaker and knowing the exact gestures it is possible to make the certain conclusions. Once there was the experiment held in one of Universities. There were married couples divided into two groups. One group was made by women and another one by men. Then they were shown different versions of baby crying. And then they were asked to explain their meaning. The majority of people that had children decoded them without any mistakes while men didn't see differences in baby crying.

In such way the conclusion was made that women being more emotional and sensitive decoded nonverbal gestures better. Men are not so capable in it. They need exact meaning and moves that must be decoded but not the sentimental worries. But of course there are exceptions from the rule.

This case also explains the fact why it is so difficult for men to say lies to their wife when the woman reads the truth almost by eyes of their husbands.